When I ask my clients or people in my life what is stopping them reaching their goals they often say money. It would have to be the top three things people say. And I can see why however it’s never really the problem.You may have a dream to own your own house, you’re working hard to save and the bank says you can’t afford to purchase one yet. (This happened to me 8 years ago). So it looks like not having enough money is the issue. Makes sense right? And this is where all people who are struggling to manifest their dreams get into trouble. They think they have to keep working harder, hustle more, be better, improve themselves so they can get better, higher paying jobs.It’s all counterintuitive to make more money show up in your life as money comes as a result of who you are being. And you frequency is leading the way so any working hard and being exhausted just puts a barrier up to these new more congruent opportunities showing up.And who you are being is a direct result of your unconscious patterning. That hidden stuff that you wired in when you were little from family, society, key mentors, church, culture … and the list goes on. You were born as this superconscious being who just knew you are abundant - just tell a two year old there is no more chocolate left and you’ll see what I mean.LOL.So you were feeling and acting abundantly and then by seven you’d wired in everyone else’s shitty patterns about lack - how they lack, life lacks, the earth lacks………..Take a look around you, especially on social media and you will see what I mean. There is something wrong, someone or the government hasn’t done enough and this is why their lives are shit.This is how you’ve been trained to think and be too. Look at your goals and they will likely be based around trying to fix you in one of the areas in which you are lacking. Got good enough at something, not skinny enough……… blah blah.But it won’t matter how many goals you set to fix your body or your money situation, nothing will shift outside you until you do an internal shift. A change in your identity. If you have an identity that believes money is hard to get and it goes fast then any new job won’t really change your financial situation. You will work hard, hustle and keep striving but stay in a fairly similar position or if you do save enough for that house it would have come from a state of working really hard - which I hate to tell you mine didn’t. The part I did work hard on though was rewiring these deeper beliefs about lack and bringing myself into a way of being that saw me and my life as abundant rather than lacking something.Let me tell you what happened. I was left with 5 years bad credit at the end of my marriage, with no family to support me, a part time job that left me $50 a week to get all of my families(two children) food, petrol and other miscellaneous things out of. I was also looking after my sick Mum so a full time teaching job wasn’t an option. This sounds awful doesn’t it but it was the greatest gift as I got to see I’d created my financial reality and for me to sort it I had to take full responsibility for it - which meant looking inward and seeing how my way of being, my unconscious patterning had created my financial situation. It forced me to stop blaming outside forces as I got to see they were a result of my unconscious patterning and way of being(frequency).I then went about rewiring it over four years and got my first houses by myself, while still having a very poor credit rating due to the Bad Credit Rating imposed on me, for five years, at the end of my marriage. I couldn’t get an overdraft, any money off most banks and yet I got a $265000 mortgage. How did I do this? I shifted internal patterning from lack to greater abundance, I shifted my energetics and I handed the heavy lifting over to the universe(quantum field). I knew it was possible and I didn’t know how but the how showed up. My yearly income had gone down since I was single and I only had my income coming in yet I managed to buy my own house.Here’s the main things I did.*I didn’t listen to what anyone told me was possible for me.*I didn’t give up, dug deep and stayed in possibility. I asked open ended questions which rewired my brain and tapped my into universal intelligence. Check out my blog on how the universe works to find out more about this.*I kept rewiring and pivoting from any pattern that was based on lack.*I consciously did the work to find these patterns. You can ask certain questions to yourself and you will get downloads about them.*I kept going to my broker and didn’t give up, until a bank would take me on with bad credit which they did at 8.5% which meant my mortgage would have been $600 a week. I said yes , then the next day my own bank offered me a mortgage for 4.5%. Around $300 less a week.*I know miracles are possible and I experience them everyday as I don’t have any underlying beliefs that I don’t deserve them.*I opened up my capacity to receive more abundance overtime, but it never takes that long for my clients as I did the hard work to find tools, make my own tools and create a methodology that works and creates faster results.*I was grateful and allowing of what I did have. This is crucial otherwise you trigger off those underlying patterns and you are back in a loop of creating more things to be unhappy about - more lack!!*I celebrate all my so called wins, every little one as this keeps rewiring my brain and tells the universe I am open for more miraculous things to show up.*I didn’t set traditional goals but created a whole way to write down and journal about my desires which I know actually sped up the process. (Reach out of you want to know more)*I handed the how over, I didn’t know how it would show up but the little steps on the way materialised and I took the ones that I knew were right for me. I let go of trying to fix and control everything outside.*I stopped talking about anything that triggered off those limiting money patterns. So stop moaning about what you don’t have and how money is hard to get.How can more money come in if you are moaning about what you don’t have. You are telling the universe that you lack and life is lacking and it will show you more of this.So what your current financial reality is right now is just a by product of your past way of being , those unconscious patterns and the actions that arise from that way of being. And it’s just not your real reason you haven’t reached your goals or dreams yet. Look at me. I managed to reach mine with a financial reality that looked dire on paper.What’s really going on is you have patterns around lack and you lost touch of that part of you that knows you are inherently abundant. Go earn as much as you like and some of those dreams just won’t manifest if you feel you aren’t good enough, worthy enough, and you don’t have the right resources or skills anyway. It’s a be it to see it reality and your frequency doesn’t lie.You actually can’t receive abundance and won’t even notice it around you until you rewire these patterns and shift your frequency.Money isn’t the problem - your deep seated, limiting beliefs are, which impact your energetics. So what are you going to do about it?Head to some resources below to get you started. Some free journaling videos and an activation that will get you started in feeling more abundant and creating more abundance in your life.And request this:Universe show me my abundant nature today… and let it bring you somethingHere’s a link to my podcast HEY UNIVERSE(I’M HERE) which may shed more light on this topic and key paradigms I share in this blog:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/heyuniverseimhere">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/heyuniverseimhere</a>Check out this blog post on how the universe really works:<a target="_blank" href="https://soulfuelledsisters.ezycourse.com/en/blog/how-the-universe-really-works/">https://soulfuelledsisters.ezycourse.com/en/blog/how-the-universe-really-works/</a>Join me in my free Facebook group, called Soul Fuelled Circle for Midlife Mums and access two free zoom calls a month.<a target="_blank" href="https://www.soulfuelledsisters.com/zoom-signuppage">https://www.soulfuelledsisters.com/zoom-signuppage</a>

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